@Sp4ce_kitty@E4TYOURYOUNG also there is no such thing as sexually a lesbian if you are romantically attracted to men. you are just homosexual and biromantic.
@Sp4ce_kitty@E4TYOURYOUNG i would recommend these people come up with a different word then that doesn’t water down the meanings of gay and lesbian by implying that you can be a lesbian attracted to men and gay attracted to women.
@hardpietdepsi@Scramblesyolk obviously like there’s gonna be some trans guys who used to identify as lesbians who feel some connection to the label, but i think at some point in your transition you’ve just gotta let it go and accept that while it was a part of your journey, it no longer applies to you.
@Scramblesyolk we don’t have conversations about whether women are included in “gay” because people have accepted that gay = nwlnw. that’s not the case with “lesbian” and we have to keep having these convos because people are constantly trying to include men in it.
@Scramblesyolk i mean sure there are identities that don’t fit in nice neat little boxes but “lesbian” has a pretty clear definition (nmlnm) and i think if you don’t fit in the box then maybe it’s not the box for you.
@Scramblesyolk i think saying that trans guys can be lesbians and trans women cannot prioritizes c1s comfortability a lot more than saying trans guys cannot be lesbians because they are not women. i don’t think trans guys being lesbians is as subversive as you make it out to be.
@sirenslop i think teams are having a lot of convos behind the scenes to make sure this doesn’t happen this year. hence why knight and watts went unprotected. they probs made it clear they weren’t staying.