bitch i was depressed for months, nobody noticed. i still showed up for people even when i didn’t know how to show up for myself. that’s why i don’t buy the whole “i was going through something” excuse for treating people badly. we’re all going through something.
i genuinely do not believe people treat you how they feel about you. i believe they treat you based on the state of mind they're in. some people unintentionally hurt you because they are at war with themselves suffering, and suffering with things that has nothing to do with you.
so much of adulthood is just grieving in secret. grieving ex lovers, grieving dead friendships, grieving your parents sinking into old age, grieving the person you thought you'd grow into. grieving cities you never got to live in. grieving parts of you that couldn't survive.
When Amerix advises men to buy assets, he’s criticized.
When Amerix encourages men to lead rather than to be weak, he becomes a target.
When Amerix advocates for self-improvement of men, he’s portrayed negatively.
The backlash against Amerix should tell you one thing: they don't want to see a better man!
Calmness is the most attractive trait a man can have. I like Men who are gentle with you, Talk to you nicely and kindly, show understanding, and have a grace in their tone. That tough, mean guy energy is so unattractive. Talk to me nicely or don't talk at all !!
i like that “morning baby” kinda relationship. the no games, great communication, lot of sex, lots of kissing, lot of cuddling, lots of flirting, lots of being goofy kind of relationship. that makes you want to run 100 miles, read books, clean up your bad habits kind of love.
I like CALM men. Men who don't shout or break things when they're mad. Men who tell you exactly how they feel. Men who communicate. Men who talk to you in a gentle, soft and low voice telling you what made them mad or what you did wrong, but never blame you or disrespect you >>