Men really don’t understand how they can make or break the mother of their child during postpartum. It’s the most vulnerable time for us so being patient, kind and understanding is what we need.
no one talks about how draining it is when your mood is constantly switching between "keep going, it'll get better" and "i can't do this anymore I'm about to give up"
heartbreak steals your innocence. i remember being so deeply in love and so naive—there’s a bittersweetness when i think back, knowing i will never be that soft or vulnerable again.
detachment doesn't mean to cut them off. it's about removing your expectations and fully embracing their presence without any strings attached. you'll know you're detached when you can fully enjoy their presence without fearing their absence