im going to be babied & taken cared of gently for the rest of my life because in my childhood i had to grow up fast & was treated roughly
i didn’t get the chance to experience deep gentle love. thats whats owed to me. thats my karma
You don’t need a perfect partner. You need someone who can regulate their emotions, admit when they fuck up, & actually sit with uncomfortable conversations without shutting down, flipping it on you, or throwing low blows every time shit gets real.
I met a first daughter who told me she loves men who don’t just accept anything, men who don’t get bossed around, men who lead and she follows. Whats funny is, this babe loves to boss people around and when you don’t do what she says, her mood changes.
Made me understand something about first daughters, if you don’t lead, she will lead, and her leading makes you less attractive to her
At this big age we’re at, when people show signs of hidden animosity or weird energy, I remove myself. I’m not trying to understand it or make sense of it. Tbh, I’d rather keep that energy as far away from me as possible!
interesting that you see this woman taking care of an animal, washing it, dressing it, putting bluey on for it to watch, yet rather than the obvious comparison to a child you say boyfriend even though she’s a lesbian. maybe unpack that