A relationship that can be ruined by simply having a conversation about your feelings, emotions, or expectations was never a stable relationship to begin with.
always check your own attitude too. it's not always the world around you, sometimes you are the toxic person. understand that you make mistakes and can hurt people. understand that there are things you need to work on. apologise, unlearn, and relearn, that's growth
people who lack accountability always say “you could’ve just talked to me.” no i couldn’t. you don’t listen, you deflect, and you twist everything until i’m the one apologizing
Pregnancy can kill her.
C-sections can scar her forever.
Postpartum can destroy her mentally. But sure, keep calling it “just nine months.” Your lack of empathy is terrifying.