Soooo tired of this “you have to forgive to heal” narrative. Absolutely not. Sometimes “forgiving” just ties you back in with the person who was a problem to begin with. It is 100% okay to distance yourself.
Forgive your abusers
Forgive your parents. Forgive your abusive uncle. Forgive your ex.
Give them grace. Understand that they're only humans with imperfections (just like anyone else)
Because the grudge you hold will have you attracting more abusers.
LOOK AT HOW RELAXED JOHNNY DEPP WAS WITH HIS ATTORNEYS COMPARED TO AMBER HEARD PFFFTTTT HE KNOWS HE’S GONNA WIN THIS LETS GOOOOOO
#JusticeForJohnnyDepp
when people come to you with their problems, it’s ok to listen & reflect what they’ve said. instead of trying to convince them of what you think they should do, let them come to that conclusion on their own. you can help them get there by reflecting what they’ve said back to them