If you never have, google “ocd religious scrupulosity” to understand how harmful evangelicalism concepts of “sin” were to those of us with intrusive thoughts.
@thepursuinglife We were raised in environments that taught us our personal wants and needs were unimportant or selfish. When you grow up like that, joy is always bittersweet, sadly.
Growing up evangelical taught me that my reality wasn’t safe, God wasn’t safe, my heart wasn’t safe, and my mind wasn’t safe. Not to mention, other worldviews and people groups were seen as unsafe. No wonder we have trauma manifesting as low self-confidence and anxiety disorders.
@Kdubtru@JoLuehmann commune with a pastor who elevates women and encourages them, and empowers their voice. I just don’t understand why you would want to do otherwise. And utilizing a book to prove you have more power in the church than women is just, mind boggling.
@Kdubtru Jesus empowered and lifted women to his level. He offered a hand up to the woman washing his feet, to the woman ashamed at the well. And @JoLuehmann just seems passionate in this video 🙌 I wouldn’t want a pastor who didn’t offer me the same rights as everyone. I’d rather
@johnathonbowers learned after a lot of counseling and support that ocd was my minds way of coping with overwhelming feelings, as it kept me out of my body and in my mind. The act of a deep breath and asking my body what I need to feel and process when I notice pure-ocd has been a game changer.
@johnathonbowers Wow, thanks for sharing! I haven’t heard of many other people talk about pure-ocd, more specifically ‘scrupulosity.’ I’d had behavior ocd most of my life that I learned to manage well, but developed pure-ocd/rumination and intrusive thoughts after some trauma and 1/2
Amen. ❤️
“Anyone who gets to the end of their life with the exact same beliefs and opinions as they had at the beginning is doing it wrong." - @SarahBessey