then when you notice the energy shift, you’ll confront it and they’ll continue projecting and act like you’re crazy for peeping the weirdness. it’s hard to be friends with women who think everyone is out to get them. you have to let them go once they show jealousy or project.
it’s sad when women sabotage genuine friendships with other women because they weren’t shown love from women in their life growing up. you’ll be trying to support and love them, but they’ll ghost you and act weird. then project their insecurities onto you and ruin the friendship.
@Theholisticpsyc If we were raised by "Do it yourself" parents, we become too independent such that we don't show empathy to people cos we don't understand "how they can't work their way out" or we become too helpful without boundaries cos we're used to being "the hero".
@litbitxh i can’t either, like everyone wanted to give me their opinions with both pregnancies & i just literally went with the flow and ignored everyone hahaha
i always wanted a boy because i knew having girls i wouldn’t be able to control spoiling the shit out of them & having them be my minis 🥴😂🤍 but i loveeee being a girl mom, i love all the girly things lol
One of the most confusing parts about being raised by narcissistic parents is that we learn that our role is to: achieve, appease, or perform. There’s such confusion when we reach adulthood because we don’t know who we truly are.
HERE’S WHY 🧵:
I may be biased, but baby girl is about to have the cutest blanket in the world.
20.75 hours in, and still not finished 😅😅 but her nursery is pastels and I just can’t wait to see everything put together
Everyone warns you about the newborn stage. How you won’t sleep, you’ll be exhausted. No one warns you about toddlerhood. I’ve never been more mentally exhausted and constantly questioning myself on whether or not I was really meant to be a mom