There’s great pressure in having hard-chargers in your inner circle. These are the people who let you know when you think you’re great, you’re truly only good. Rather than seeing those people as pressure, consider them a privilege in your life!!
If you are one of the people who bitch all the time, take a good hard look at yourself in the mirror. Chances are the only motherfucker you need to bitch at is yourself for not being squared away.