2. Tease lightly with confidence
Playful teasing creates tension without pressure. Keep it about small things like her choice of coffee or her dramatic stories.
Smile while you tease her. Never insult, never embarrass, never get cruel.
One tease then change the topic.
1. Donโt be so nice
Nice becomes unattractive when it is approval seeking. A woman can feel when kindness is used to earn a reward.
Keep respect, remove desperation. Say what you mean without over explaining. Hold your opinion even if she disagrees.
This video never gets old. The PASSION. A powerful conversation.
"Has Nigeria spilled blood or dropped an atomic bomb in Nagasaki or Hiroshima? You should be quiet when it comes to Moral condemnation. America should be quiet".
He had to apologize at the end for speaking the truth too raw and bluntly.