Right now life teaching me detachment. Nothing’s really mine. People come and go. Moments pass. Love shifts. It’s all temporary. I’m learning to enjoy things without gripping them too tight. To accept when energy changes. To let go when it’s time.
The best decision I ever made was to be quiet. I have nothing to prove. I'm done explaining myself, done convincing anyone of my worth, and done fixing what I didn't break. I refuse to fight for a spot in anyone's life. If you see my value, great. If you don't, that's on you. I'm not forcing anyone to appreciate me, respect me, or treat me right. That's a choice they have to make on their own. Just lessons and a future that no longer includes people who took me for granted
My intuition is SO crazy. I can literally have no evidence of what's going on but still know there's something going on behind my back & I'm always right😭
all relationships can survive mistakes, but they cannot survive patterns. repeated behavior isn’t a mistake, it’s a decision, apologies lose meaning when the actions never change.
Avoid emotionally unavailable men, men who purposely trigger you, men who ignore you when they are mad, men who intentionally do things to upset you, men who can't apologize sincerely, men who can't communicate without getting angry!
Accountability is so important to me. Nobody’s perfect, but don’t try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match
i had to learn that just because someone calls something love doesn’t mean it carries the same depth, care, intention, or emotional responsibility that I associate with it.