The average woman doesn't struggle to love men. If anything, she's been conditioned to love them a little too much that often it's at the expense of her own safety, dignity and self preservation. The world has never suffered from a shortage of women who love men.
Males think they're brave enough to fight a gorilla but in reality they’re not even brave enough to tell their friend to stop making women uncomfortable.
This is why Korean feminists started the 4B movement.
“I will not give birth to a life that will discriminate against my gender. My own flesh and blood must not become a blade and turn against me. If the world born from my body oppresses me I will not let that world exist.”
"deriving pleasure from being attractive in the third person" is exactly how I felt in my experiences with men. In the clinical world, we call it dissociation.
i genuinely see males as subhuman and not even just because i hate them. they’re incapable of the deep and complex thoughts and emotions that women have been having since we were girls. they’re just violent primitive voids driven by only sex and anger.
The idea that words that deride homosexual(s) (men, typically) such as "faggot" or "fairy" being worse than misogynistic slurs and pejoratives such as "bitch" or "cunt" is absolutely a kind of (male) homosexual exceptionalism, and often one gay men are spouting bc of solipsism.