Hardly anyone talks about men’s mental health.
My friend Roger (name changed) — both his sisters lost their husbands. One to COVID, another to brain fever. Both have kids.
They never worked, not good with in-laws, so they stay with Roger. He takes care of them and their children — everything.
He isn’t getting married. He says, “What if my wife stops me from helping my sisters?”
I’ve never seen him smile from his heart. Sometimes I’ve even seen him blabbering alone — maybe the weight is too heavy to share.
His sisters should understand — they can accept help, not depend on him completely.
No one talks about men who silently carry everyone’s pain and still keep going. 💔 #MensMentalHealth #RespectMenToo
Is it a shocking loss? Yes.
Have we been humbled? Absolutely.
However we just won our first major trophy in 6 years last week, we're third place by 4 points with a game in hand. This is a shock but we're still having a great season.
There is no need to panic, at all.