an advice to indian men between ages 23-29 is to do whatever they can to not get longhoused.
i've reached an age where i'm surrounded by marriages and also getting a glimpse into the absolute mess in indian gen-z marriages.
one combo that keeps coming up repeatedly is of a longhoused husband + a free-spirited independent wife.
you see, boomers raised kids in two ways:
- one set of boomers were hyper controlling. running every action, decision, and withdrawing love the second their kid showed any will of their own
- the other minority just gave full freedom and stayed of their kids lives as much as they could
the first bunch created an army of "longhoused" kids wired to chase parents approval for everything. even trading off what they know is right just to keep the validation.
this setup works somehow through school and college but the moment these guys hit the marriage market it explodes.
a longhoused husband with an independent wife can't even decide to have sex without calling parents first. the wife spots the zero spine and starts seeking emotional/physical support outside.
this is a recipe for disaster.
break the approval addiction or you're gonna get fucked when marriage hits and you still need mummy-papa's permission for every move.
don't become that guy watching his wife check out while he sits spineless and alone in his own house.
grow a spine.
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@gemsofbabus_ That's nothing. When I was traveling to hyderabad, all highway service lanes were taken over for drying rice grains. Getting that toxins from vehicles and asphal. Tractors parked on the side too.
Going out of Mumbai and arriving in cities like Jaipur, Bhubaneswar etc is such an initial shock for eyes & mind.
Entire city deserted, feels like a ghost town, economic activity dies down, so much open space, everything ends within few kms, people chilling for hours, bit scary in dark hours.
I have started appreciating Mumbai people lately more than I ever did. Wish we had 5-10 more places like Mumbai acting as growth engines of India.
Instead, we are with a large population which does nothing significant, lives with a feudal mindset, has tons of cultural and regional pride, has mediocre politicians, and fails to break the inertia.
These places just drain the wealth created in centres like Mumbai by its hard working population.
If you live in these sinkholes for few days, you also become exactly like this by your thought process and actions.
It is not against any region or place. Names are just examples here. Problem is huge & widespread.
When his son was alive he wanted to leave India but motherboard boomer forced him to wageslave in this sheethole now that he's dead this boomer baap is content, now he'll move abroad with his dotter. Truly honda boomers are a curse on this earth such vile vile creatures