unfortunately, i don't like nonchalant men. Be dominant, check on me. Be affectionate. Tell me im gorgeous. Plan dates. Buy me flowers. Be absolutely obsessed with me.
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i had this person who talked to me every single day. good morning texts. random updates. “did you eat?” “i saw this and thought of you.” they made me feel chosen without ever actually saying it. so i believed it. i relaxed. i let my guard down.
then one week, the replies got slower. the energy shifted. suddenly i was “overthinking.” suddenly i was “too much.” and the same person who used to reassure me started acting like i imagined the whole connection.
the part that messed me up wasn’t them leaving. it was how easily they switched up. like everything we built meant nothing. like i was the only one who thought it was real.
ever since then, when someone is too consistent, too sweet, too available… a small voice in my head goes, “okay but when is the plot twist?”
that’s my origin story. not heartbreak. just the moment i realized words are easy, patterns are temporary, and people can make you feel safe right before they don’t.
ROMANTIC THINGS I WANT TO EXPERIENCE (WITHOUT HAVING TO ASK)
*putting a necklace on me
* dancing/kissing in the rain
* "this reminds me of you"
* just because flower
* A surprise date
* A love letter
* Tucking my hair behind my ears
* star gazing
* hugs from behind
* being ran up to and kissed
* pulling out a chair for me
* picnic date on the beach
* Rose Petal trail