As your child starts their fall sports season, here is one reminder:
Let the season belong to them.
Support them. Encourage them. Cheer for them.
But don’t make their playing time, role, statistics, or success your experience.
Sports are supposed to teach kids how to compete, handle adversity, work with others, respond to coaching, and keep going when things don’t go their way.
That means there will be hard days.
They may not start.
They may not play as much as they want.
They may make mistakes.
They may struggle.
They may disagree with a coach.
They may have to earn a role they thought they already deserved.
That’s part of sports.
And sometimes the best thing we can do as parents is not remove the struggle, but help them grow through it.
After the game, they probably don’t need an evaluation.
They need a parent.
Tell them you loved watching them play. Ask if they had fun. Listen when they want to talk.
And when things get hard, resist the urge to fix everything for them.
Because the lessons they learn from being a great teammate, handling disappointment, competing for a role, and sticking with something difficult will matter long after the season ends.
Parents, enjoy the season and help your child and team make positive memories.
It goes faster than you think.
“He’s the only reason why I’m out here playing…”
This weekend in Minneapolis, Jordan Brewer connected with his donor, Benjamin Anderson’s family. The cartilage transplant allowed Brewer to continue playing the game he loves, honoring Benjamin’s legacy with every pitch.
Are you coachable?
No “ya, buts” allowed.
“Just be coachable. Just take the instruction in … I’m trying to help be a part of the win and not the reason we lost.”
Coaching looks fun from the outside.
But once you’re in it, you learn some hard truths that most people never see.
Here are 5 hard truths every coach needs to understand:
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5 things that will put you ahead of 97% of all coaches:
1. Be organized: Have a plan for every practice, every meeting, every season.
2. Communicate clearly: With players, parents, and assistants. Clarity wins.
3. Coach mindset, not just skills: Confidence. Toughness. Focus. These decide games.
4. Define your culture: Don’t leave it to chance. Set the standard daily.
5. Keep learning: Books. Clinics. Mentors. Growth is your edge.
Most coaches focus on X’s and O’s.
The best focus on everything else too.
Wise words from Reid Ouse.
"You're not that cool. You're not that special. So get over yourself."
It’s not about tearing players down.
It’s about truth-telling.
The best athletes aren’t entitled.
They show up, work hard, and stay humble.
Talent is common.
Character isn’t.
Today is my final MSHSL sporting event as I fade off into the sunset (I will retire in August). In honor of this auspicious occasion, my family of weirdos surprised me and the rest of the universe by wearing shirts bearing mostly photos of me when I really rocked it in the 70s.
With my track and field stories now done, I’m done with live state tournament coverage for the 2024-25 school year.
I would like to thank Sun Chips and Rold Gold Pretzels for fufilling my dietary needs during my all day long live state tournament coverage over the last 3 days