On America’s 250th birthday, Folarin Balogun is an incredible example of class and true greatness.
“There are lots of people we’re inspiring, boys and girls watching, you have to show them the right way to handle things. Even when you think it’s unjust.”
—US Striker Folarin Balogun
Balogun was called for a highly questionable red card in USA’s game against Bosnia.
After the game, he didn’t pout or protest. He returned to the field to celebrate with his teammates. He also shook hands with all the officials.
“You can feel something unjust has happened to you, but it’s not an excuse to not do the right thing. Every game I try to shake the referee’s hand and this game was no different,” Balogun said.
“It’s important just to show people whatever things happen to you, good or bad, just continue to be yourself.”
It’s the epitome of responding not reacting.
Balogun said himself he felt tons of emotions, but instead of immediately becoming fused to those emotions, he took a few deep breaths created some space.
Instead of freaking out, distracting the team, and potentially worsening the situation, he stayed collected.
Balogun embodies what I write about in The Way of Excellence:
You can’t always control what happens, but you can control what you do next. You can choose to respond not react. You can focus on what is in your control. You can keep moving forward with a next play mindset.
“I think my role is just to continue to support everybody, to keep morale high and I’m sure for the game against Belgium we can really create a great atmosphere to make the game as challenging as possible,” Balogun said.
Good luck, bad luck.
Good calls, bad calls.
Good weather, bad weather.
So much is out of our hands. All we can do is stay true to our values, continue showing up, and do everything possible to meet the moment as best we can. In soccer, and in life.
In America, we give far too much attention to unserious clowns and morally bankrupt people. But there are also extraordinary examples of greatness, of people doing it the right way.
Folarin Balogun is one.
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