Middle class will never not amaze me. Suddenly all concerns are out of the window when it comes to traveling internationally but when people who survive with so little that could not afford to be lockdown were labeled as irresponsible for being out trying to put food on the table
Children are smart. Please don’t patronize them. They’d rather have two parents coparenting separately than a sham. But ey. Some women stay so their kids can get direct access cause they know niggas will use a divorce as an excuse and I have to stan 😂
I have heard a lot of partners in what they call bad relationships not want to split and cite they are staying for the children? Is for the children a valid reason or reason enough to stay in an unhappy situation and what would be reason enough to stay ?
Like I was just there getting water. Minding my business this dude tells me he’s seen me at UB. He’s pursuing an MBA or whatever. And then asks for my number. Me: no I’d rather not. Him: storms off. Me:
@letsema_lei Dancing is something that’s revered culturally if you think about it. It’s such an honorable part of so many rituals. It’s also an integral part of celebration and healing. Go bina hela ka bo gone is spiritual.
Knew to let it go when oomf (queer) told me “hope I don’t offend you but I don’t think bisexuality is an actual thing, you’re either straight or gay”, I wasn’t personally offended but I realized I’m going to be defending and authenticating myself at all times and I’d rather not.
Your bisexuality gets invalidated so much by straight and queer people, you end up never talking about it boldly, let everyone assume and decide on your behalf I guess.
@sxftcookie I also really like that you ended this by saying that those women’s feelings are valid. It’s an understandable thing to question but I don’t think it takes away from people’s existence.