if u wanna be like Jesus realize “don’t cross oceans for people who wouldn’t cross a puddle for you” is a terrible mindset. like honestly, freaking cross twelve oceans. what better way to live like Jesus than to love people well who maybe wouldn’t even give you the time of day.
if you can’t hang out with me once bc you already had plans with your bf/gf, i won’t ever stop inviting you and i won’t be mad. that’s your boo, and as long as they’re making you happy, i’m happy for you. sucks people don’t have that type of mindset for their friends.
A lot of ppl don’t want to hear this, but relationships of any sort involve a lot of forgiveness. You have to accept that no one is perfect & that they will hurt you, disappoint you, and let you down. You just have to figure out if the ups and downs are worth it.
Boys date to date, men date to marry, boys don’t think about investing in a future with you, men think and pray everyday about your future together, boys will run to another girl after a fight, men will stay and fight for you. If you want something real, find a man.