I think that’s partly due to it being a cultural norm. In the white community, teens take their partners home in high school and families are guiding those relationships. Black teens are taught dating is a crime and are then expected to pull a spouse and kids out a hat
I can 4give you and still remember exactly how u moved. Forgiveness don’t mean I trust you the same, deal with you the same,or give u the same access. Im not holding onto it, but Im not acting like it never happened either. Once you show me what you’re capable of,I never 4get it
Social media will NEVER rush my reality. I’m gone buy a house when I’m ready. I’m gone buy my dream car when I feel like it. I’m not competing with timelines that aren’t mine. I don’t owe the internet proof, updates, or explanations about my life. I move at my own pace. I build when it feels aligned. I buy when it makes sense for me. Just real life, on my time❗️
Respect your place in people's lives. If they don't include you, don't force your way in. If they don't share with you, don't chase answers. If they don't invite you, don't force your presence. There’s a quiet kind of peace that comes from knowing where you stand and choosing not to overextend yourself to be accepted.
you can physically feel the pain in your heart
you go to sleep with it, you wake up and you have like 3 seconds before your brain remembers you’re heartbroken and you carry it again. everyday for like 6 months