girl to girl: it's okay to be alone. it's okay to have a dry phone. it's okay to be celibate. it's okay to be selfish. it's okay to have high standards. your peace, your pace, your rules
In the end, the girl who treats a man like a debit card always seems to come out on top. Meanwhile, the girl asking for nothing but attention, effort, and consistency end up in therapy trying to heal from it.