please don’t ever think i’m male centered cus i like 2 keep me a nigga. i js like companionship & laughter, being babied, getting shit paid 4, & orgasms
You gotta maintain a lightness to your heart because turning into a bitter loser obsessed with how people have done you wrong is the most off-putting and unrewarding way a person can choose to be
People be so mad when you have duality
Like yes I am and can be both
I’m hella mean and hella sweet
I’m hella grown and hella childlike
I’m hella smart and hella silly
I’m hella strict and hella calm
I’m hella prude and hella naughty
yes. and there’s also a correlation between survival mode and not wanting to dress well, adorn yourself, do self care, do your hair, nourish yourself. you just don’t have energy to care about beauty and sensuality because your nervous system is busy keeping you safe.