Anyway, just want women around me to understand, you need to start aspiring towards financial independence with the exact same urgency society wants you to aspire towards marriage.
actually your community IS coming to save you, people are going to show up for you, love is going to find you, strangers are going to be like angels, the world conspires for your highest good
Dating this, fucking that. Go make some art. Go put something into the world that it needs. Direct your focus to shit that matters with that creative energy.
The key to living a comfortable life is confrontation and chaos actually. You have to say no. You have to tell people to fuck off. You have to be mean in necessary situations. A life of peace isn’t built off of being a yes man and taking a passive approach to everything
Gotta get comfortable with being uncomfortable because that’s when your mind shifts to problem solving and you’ll make any situation better. Just gotta make sure choices are for your benefit and won’t keep you in a loop.
I don’t like people who throw rocks and hide they hand. Stand on what you did, what you said, and then maybe I’ll consider respecting you and treating you like a human being. Until then? You a dog
the women in my lineage have always been the ones to give and give until burnout. so in this life i will only pour from a full cup. i will only marry a man who will let me rest a lot. i will give generously, but only from an aligned place. i will break ancestral curses
stopped drinking, fixed my sleeping schedule, started going on more walks, and disabled notifications from every social media app about 2 weeks ago and life has gotten better every day like it really is mostly the phones and seeing miserable people all day making stuff feel Worse