Have you ever had somebody do you so bad for no reason at all? Like a friend you wouldโve done anything for crossed you out of no where? A guy you was loyal to shit on you for nothing?
Folks are so accustomed to (and expect) Black women and girls being in positions of struggle and labor, that seeing them being โspoiledโ is a huge issue.
i like being loved.
there i said it. i like being seen, fully. i like being soft and vulnerable and strong and thoughtful and courageous and silky and open and breakable. i like being felt and understood and all of the things they tell us this world does not want us to be.