Being the bigger woman really requires silence. Let people run with whatever narrative of you & let them feed it to whoever is listening. Move with grace ALWAYS.
I feel like i gotta tell somebody. Today i went to see how many eggs i got, why they stuck a thing so big in me i almost walked outside and shot the first nigga i saw. It was so traumatizing i made a mistake and said fuck this baby.
Y’all lack communication skills because instead of taking what the other person is saying into consideration... You become defensive bc you only listening to defend the points that make you look bad. That's the disconnect right there.