Librarian. Unrepentant, unreformed geek. By day: Library Technology Coordinator for awesome school district. By night: Wife, mom, coder, STEM advocate.
@nhoodpublicist Send over the card, gift card and flowers now, but consider cooking something and bringing it over 3-4 weeks later if you feel inclined to do so. She'll have a ton of food to deal with over the next few days, so waiting several weeks (or sending a restaurant GC) is helpful.
You are not a normal person, stop trying to get through your situation with Earthly means. You better dust yourself off, and work spirit. Ancestors are waiting.
@summer_galvez Yes. I have to keep pen and paper on my nightstand to write down my ideas and thought processes, otherwise my brain won't calm down enough to let me fall asleep.