When people can’t get to you, they start trying to involve your kids because they know that’s where your heart is. But one thing about me I love my babies with everything in me. The moment children get brought into grown people situations, all respect is gone. From that point on, it’s up forever… and there’s no coming back from that. I HOPE THAT SHIT WAS WORTH PLAYING WITH MY GIRLS 😈
Only a mother can stay up until 2am, wake up at 6, be in debt, broke, alone, and still believe that one day everything will work out. That’s the strength of a mom.
If i am being honest, half the things i went through are in fact because of me; my lack of discipline, not listening to my gut feelings, and my poor decision-making.
Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score.
And eventually, the bill comes due.
I stay far away from adults that struggle with accountability and play the victim in every situation. They will self sabotage any and everything in their life for the sake of protecting their ego and pride.