I’m not being shady, asking in earnest, y’all don’t feel it’s wrong to put your child in a situation where they’re the only black child? Like they don’t see themselves anywhere? That’s an uncomfortable experience as an adult I can’t imagine it as a baby. That’s not a disservice?
And me being sensitive does not mean I’m only sensitive to my own feelings. I’m also sensitive to other people’s feelings/moods/behaviors too. I’ve learned that my sensitivity and my high level of consideration are (deeply) connected and that’s okay.
The bible consistently reminds us not to look back, and let go of the old things. Focus on the future, let go of the past, and let God take you to the next level.