bro to bro: if you like skinnier girls, get yourself a skinny girl. if you like thicker girls, get yourself a thick girl. if you like fitness girls, get yourself a fit girl. you are entitled to your own preferences.
but what you are not going to do bro, is date a girl who is not your type and make her feel inferior to other girls.
an elderly man was once asked how he managed to stay married for over 50 years. his answer was unexpectedly blunt: "there were many mornings where I woke up, looked at my wife, and didn't feel a single spark of romance. i was tired, or she was irritable, or life was simply heavy."
when asked if that lack of "feeling" worried him, he shook his head.
"i didn't marry a feeling," he explained. "i married a human being. On the days the feeling went missing, i simply worked harder to serve her. i made the coffee exactly how she liked it.
i listened to her stories even if I’d heard them a dozen times. i chose to act like a man in love until the feeling decided to show back up."
i learned the same lesson from my father and the men in my community : real love isn't something you find; it's something you build when you’d rather be doing something else.

Marry the man that says “Oh we’re probably stuck in traffic because God is protecting us from something”, instead of getting angry over being in traffic.
I really hope the woman reading this receives an unexpected $15,000 in February and finally gets to breathe again. No financial stress, and room to finally breathe again.
Men don’t understand being a “provider” isn’t just about money. It’s about providing emotional security that allows a woman to rest in her feminine energy. Money is the icing, not the cake.
BARE MINIMUM
• Opens the door
• Replies to your story
• Buys a gift after a fight
• Holds her bag when she's tired
• Asks if she ate or drank water
• Holds her hand in public
• Pulls the chair for her
PRINCESS TREATMENT
• Ties her shoes
• Breakfast in bed
• Gives her massages
• Tracks her periods & cravings
• Plans at least one surprise date night every month
• Takes candid pictures of her secretly
Romance itself is dying because of illiteracy. When you read letters from the Civil War era, men were shockingly lyrical because they had heads full of poetry. Literacy fuels passion. Beauty, wisdom, empathy, passion are vanishing from the world because people don’t read.
Unfortunately,
I don't do nonchalant men.
Be clingy. Be dominant. Be touchy:
Watch my location.
Leave me notes.
Plan dates. Bring flowers.
Be obsessed.
I saw a video of a girl who said no when her bf proposed and she broke down in tears because he got her a gold ring when all she wears is silver and that is an extremely valid response in my opinion