Alright, if you’ve been following me for a while, you’ve seen my weight lost journey. and because tomorrow is Easter & what i got today, i’m going to do a thread of the whole process.
Different salaries should only affect how luxurious your life is, not your food quality or ability to afford rent. If you work 40 hours at any job, your income should be enough to live in the town you work in. Thinking otherwise is an abysmal indicator of your humanity.
If you choose A WORKING WOMAN, you must accept that she CANNOT manage a house full time by herself. if you choose A HOUSEWIFE who can take care of and manage the household completely, you need to accept that she DOES NOT MAKE MONEY and you will have to provide for everything. if you choose a SUBMISSIVE WOMAN, you should accept that she DEPENDS on you to lead. if you choose to be with a STRONG WOMAN, you should accept that she is STUBBORN and has her own thoughts and ways..
In a relationship you can't just do what you want. you always have to think about how it will affect your partner. That's what this generation doesn't understand.
Underrated green flag in a man is simply allowing you the space to be a girl. They encourage you to be excited about the things you're passionate about, they don't get annoyed with you when you get a little emotional, they come home with a sweet treat, they don't rush you when you get ready. It's the little things lol.
I think about this lady’s best friend all the time. She was NOT playing about her friend. Knew her schedule, the meds she takes and at what time, and that shit was off IMMEDIATELY! May we all have a friend like her a be a friend like her
Hot take:
Athletes should be able to clap back at fans with no repercussions. I don’t care how much they get paid, sports fans talk reckless knowing athletes aren’t supposed to clap back because they’ll get fined or “exposed”
I will never again pretend to be the easygoing, low maintenance girl. I love receiving flowers without having to ask. I appreciate unexpected “thinking of you” texts and thoughtful check ins. I enjoy forehead kisses and good morning messages. I like being taken on meaningful dates that I didn’t have to plan.
I want to be shown off, not hidden, like someone you’re proud to have. I love affection, intentional time together, and little surprises. I like to be loved out loud. I’m done making myself smaller to be easier to love. I love hard and I won’t apologize for it anymore.
Start making husbands uncomfortable. Too many women are trying to suppress their anger and resentment because their husbands refuse to provide equity in their marriages. Husbands don’t care that you’re on the receiving end of their piss poor behavior. Make him feel your anger and resentment. Trying to keep it in is literally killing women.
the more scary side of communication, "I was unfair to you, I ignored your feelings, I admit it. I'm not ready to lose you, so I want to fix it, I'm open to change." it takes courage to have this conversation, most people even avoid saying it, but if you don't really want to lose someone, you do it.
Women love sex just as much as men. However, a woman’s libido is almost entirely dependent on her psychological state.
If she feels safe with you, if she feels seen by you, if she feels desired by you, her sexual appetite will become even more insatiable than your own.
I was today years old when I learned
If you feel it in your chest it's fear
If you feel it in your stomach it's intuition
If you feel it in your head it's anger
If you feel it in your muscles it's anxiety
If you feel it in your mouth it's disgust
If you feel it in your throat it's sadness
If you feel it in your face it's shame
If you feel it throughout your body it's happiness
I’m so BURNT OUT w/ people. Tired of always being the one who’s understanding. Tired of pouring into others, giving pieces of myself and sometimes everything I have. Burnt out on feeling taken for granted, used, and overlooked. I’m burnt out from loving, from trying, from showing up. Right now I have NOTHING left to give NOBODY… and I do mean nothing.. not love, not guidance, not even energy. I’m honestly at that point where I’m letting go and throwing in the towel..