sometimes the person you love isn't the person you can build a life with.
love tells you how you feel about someone. compatibility tells you whether two people can actually make a life together.
and those aren't always the same thing.
You know a man is truly masculine when he treats women right. Only the wounded masculine is harsh, disrespectful, or controlling with women. When a man is aligned with his healthy masculinity, he will also honor the sacredness of the feminine. We see each other, we appreciate each other
being a mama made me realize i don't just want love that feels good. i want the kind of love that feels safe, peaceful, consistent, and makes my babies feel loved too.
Cried so much this year, l really hope I'm much happier next year. It's one of the things I'm praying for. A joy that stays. A joy that is not easily shaken.
I barely need ppl. Barely ask for things, barely bother people, barely have my hand out, like once in a blue moon type shit…. but if I need you & you can’t ever show up for me the way i show up for you… you might as well burry yourself because you are DEADDDDD TO ME!!!!!
I’m having such a hard time, I just pray God gives me the ability to pick myself back up and handle everything as he always does. But God am I tired and I feel defeated.
I LOVE polite people so much. Soft spoken, heavy on please and thank you and just gentle with how they interact with the world. My favorite type of people.