I don’t play about embarrassment. I don’t play about public humiliation. Don’t ever put me in a position where people can laugh at me, judge me, or have something to say about me. If we’re together... partner or friend our ups and downs are PRIVATE. We might forgive each other, but outsiders don’t forget. It’s not just what you did, it’s HOW you did it. Once you hand my enemies anything to gossip about, it’s over. Everything you say or do after that is questionable.
As a BM myself, I genuinely can’t stand BMs who create unnecessary drama with other BMs. Like, why are you looking for beef with another woman who has her own children to raise? Take that energy to your BD and leave everybody else out of it. We’re all dealing with our own responsibilities. I have my own kid to worry about, respectfully. 🙄