If not for societal pressure and peer influence, most men wouldn’t ever consider marriage. The way it is today, it is a woman’s thing and is pointless for men generally.
When you're angry with your wife, and you raise your voice at her, what is she most likely to do?
She would grab any of your children and starts to shed tears or acting up.
Then your children will start to see you as a wicked daddy.
That's how it starts.
But I believe this is nature playing out in marriage.
Just because you don't want to be seen as a "wicked" father or husband, doesn't mean that you should not act when it's appropriate to do so.
You're the head of the home.
And for women, it should always be a "carrot and stick" approach.
Otherwise, anything you allow, will become the norm.
So there you have it.
Until you're mature, your mother will forever be a saint.
End.
Don't suffer in silence.
Be an active member of a good community, and don't hesitate to ask for help when you need it.
Don't lie to yourself that you don't need help, when it's evident that you don't have the answers/solution.
Guard your heart diligently.
Protect your peace.
Above all, love God with all your heart, for in doing that will you start to enjoy peace even in life's storms.
Sending a woman a cab or transport fare to come and meet you on a date is not being a gentleman.
If someone is genuinely interested in you enough to want to go on a date with you, then they should be willing to contribute something toward making the date happen, especially since you will be covering the cost of the activities and refreshments.
“I’m glad to inform you that you’re not the father of my children.”
Those were the words my wife told me after more than 20 years together.
At first, I thought she was joking.
I told her a DNA test would settle it.
She looked me in the eye and said she was ready to stand by her words anywhere, anytime.
Then came the part that broke me completely.
All four children I raised, fed, clothed, paid school fees for, and took full responsibility for suddenly cut me off. According to their mother, they all belonged to her ex.
Not one of them defended me.
Not one.
I decided not to do a DNA test. Why spend money proving what everyone had already accepted?
I simply told them to follow their mother's truth and stop seeing me as their father.
For over two decades, I carried every responsibility alone. Not because I had to, but because I loved them as my family.
Today, I’m left with nothing but memories and questions.
People see me standing, but they have no idea what this has done to me inside.
Man breaks down as he recounts how his wife allegedly told him he was not the biological father of their four children after 20 years of marriage💔💔
@SAMMAICON1@boykomodo17@miz_uyik The man will be happier without her. See how she misunderstood a simple sentence? She probably wanted to leave and only needed an excuse.
@jon_d_doe Most of us spend our lives taking both sight & hearing for granted.
I wouldn't rank one suffering above the other. Losing sight changes how u experience the world. Losing hearing changes how u connect with it.
Either way, it's a reminder to be grateful for both. 🙏🏽❤️👂🏽👀