Okay i have your time love.
The phrase “beauty with brains” comes from, and reinforces, a misogynistic stereotype. The “compliment” only works because it treats beauty and intelligence as qualities that are somehow surprising when they exist in the same woman.
Abuse is psychological first. They don’t hit you when they know you could leave or fight back. They do it when they have created such a safety net so that in your mind you can’t fathom the idea that the man you love actually hurt you. To make sense of it, your mind makes excuses.
i dont believe in closure or unpacking what you did or giving you a chance to explain yourself. i simply remove you from my life and go no contact forever.
cut a man off cause he genuinely believed men have it harder than women….im not keeping anyone around me who’s missing a significant amount of brain cells
"I don't want to show her too much love and attention because she'll think I'm a weak man."
The moment you come across someone with this mindset, for the sake of your mental health, run.
Inefficient and ineffective sex education.
Lack of access to contraceptives and reproductive care.
Need for labor as a descent of colonialist and slavery mentality.
Religious indoctrination
ABBL
I have always wondered about the psychology behind poor people being the ones that procreate the most. Because just by using common sense, they should be the ones to refuse procreation because they see how terrible and dehumanizing poverty is, especially to children. But alas!
All of a sudden Nigerian males are telling us that Nigerian women don’t have brain and don’t like books.
Same people who pulled on women on that academic thread and said anyone could get a PHd
Same demographic that has bullied two women in the last consecutive years for reading.
Ask before you dance on someone
Ask before you dance behind someone
Ask before you touch people
Ask before you join people who are kissing.
ASK FOR CONSENT AND STOP BEING WEIRD