Jalen Nunely

21 He/Him 🍔Foodie & Cook👨🏾‍🍳 🥷🏾Anime & Gaming 👾 ✈️ Lifestyle & Health 📚

[Jalen Nunely @JayT0207]

@remshology I wasn’t able to find your channel or video 😭

[Ox (No. 1 Kashimo Glazer)『𝙵𝙰𝚃𝙴𝙳』 @NamesOx]

"Grok have a debate with him because I’m already going to sleep"

[Jalen Nunely @JayT0207]

@jisoo_dm 🫂

[Jalen Nunely @JayT0207]

@jisoo_dm That’s no problem! And you’re exactly right! Need someone who’d reassure you and actually not be “bummed out” from real frustration

[Jalen Nunely @JayT0207]

@jisoo_dm Honestly this is probably for the best because him being bummed out by you having valid concerns is not ok. I know it’ll be hard but I know things will work out 🫂

[Jalen Nunely @JayT0207]

Overall:

I’m pretty content but i’m still hungry for more growth.

I feel myself stagnating and becoming complacent again. I must change.

I must have more faith and try to be more safe.

Staying out of trouble but still somehow get dragged into drama.

Boundaries are better.

[Jalen Nunely @JayT0207]

It’s been 2 years since my last update so here it is:

Moved states

Got my own place

Got my own car

Got new clothes

Got a new job

Made new friends

Met new people

Dealt with drama

Deal with family dynamics

Traveled more

Tried relationships

In a long term one now

[Jalen Nunely @JayT0207]

I found myself clashing with my ego again regarding something that has come to light recently. I’m not gonna do anything about personally. Weak people seek revenge and I know I’m strong. I’m going to stay positive despite what is said about me. But I will speak up for myself.

[Jalen Nunely @JayT0207]

It’s been helpful that the weather has been consistently nice. So I’ve been able to be outside and in nature more often. One day at a time.

[Jalen Nunely @JayT0207]

I find myself reminiscing on times long past on more peaceful times in my life. Or times that I thought were peaceful. It’s nice to remember but I snap back to the present, which makes me sad again. Fleeting memories….It has been a long couple of days. I’m getting through it.

[Jalen Nunely @JayT0207]

I find myself reminiscing on times long past on more peaceful times in my life. Or times that I thought were peaceful. It’s nice to remember but I snap back to the present, which makes me sad again. Fleeting memories….It has been a long couple of days. I’m getting through it.

[nina @ninagrewrites]

healing an avoidant attachment style = pushing through the discomfort of expressing feelings more openly and often (this is best done in therapy). if this is never done, the pattern of distancing from people when triggered by closeness or vulnerability will just keep repeating

[Jalen Nunely @JayT0207]

Still taking better management of my health and it’s still quite hard. I have faith in myself to get things done, I’ve done it before and I can do it again.

[Jalen Nunely @JayT0207]

I’m feeling better lately however I was updated on someone and don’t know how to feel. Well I guess it goes for multiple people and curiosity got the best of me. Not surprised by some information and shocked by others. Noting that it all just feels like nothing now.

[Jalen Nunely @JayT0207]

One thing stuck out to me, I heard one person being shady and fight someone…..yeah that was something. I was surprised but not really. If that makes sense. Hearing about those people made me realize it doesn’t serve me to look back. I need to keep looking forward. Closing cycles

[Jalen Nunely @JayT0207]

I’m feeling better lately however I was updated on someone and don’t know how to feel. Well I guess it goes for multiple people and curiosity got the best of me. Not surprised by some information and shocked by others. Noting that it all just feels like nothing now.

[Jalen Nunely @JayT0207]

Rage is the pain we refuse to acknowledge attempting to be heard. Beneath the rage is always unexpressed grief. Understanding that helped me to have compassion. Still understanding myself but this sucks a lot.

[Jalen Nunely @JayT0207]

An unhealed person carrying emotional pain has chaotic energy. You can almost feel the rage under the surface from needs that have gone unmet and abandonment that hasn't been processed.

[Jalen Nunely @JayT0207]

Damn.

[Jalen Nunely @JayT0207]

There is only one decision, which is to ask yourself if you will stand here forever, or walk forward into your own light.

[Jalen Nunely @JayT0207]

The ones who hurt you were they themselves wounded, often far beyond anything you can comprehend. This understanding does not excuse, it simply explains. It explains that it wasn't you, it was a reflection of them. It explains that some of the ways life can be most unfair is when

[Jalen Nunely @JayT0207]

we are collateral damage to a storm we did not create, and yet, have been asked to weather. The ones who hurt you were they themselves wounded, and there is nothing you can do about this fact.