If you’re someone who is genuinely kind and who radiates love just because that’s who you are, the people who perform kindness will assume that your kindness is also a performance. The kinder you are the more they will see you as a fraud because to them there’s just no way.
One of the strongest signs of intelligence is the ability to consider another person's perspective without becoming defensive. Curiosity reveals a sharp mind. It shows who is committed to understanding rather than winning.