As I get older, I’m realising that 30 is actually young. We put so much pressure on ourselves to have everything figured out by then, but the truth is that 30 is still a time for growth, learning, rebuilding, taking chances, and becoming the person you’re meant to be. There’s still so much life ahead, so many opportunities waiting, and so much time to create the life you truly want.
Life is already hard, I don't want to be around people who make it harder. I don't want to be that kind of person in anyone's life either. I want to be around people who feel like home, who bring comfort, calm and peace. That's the kind of energy I need and the kind I want to give.
Therapy is valuable, but not every problem is a therapy problem. Some problems require better boundaries, better decisions, better support systems, or a change in environment.
Losing people I loved, carrying grief that almost broke me, facing setbacks that made me question everything, battling health challenges, financial struggles, and depression, yet still finding a reason to keep going. Rebuilding one day at a time. The story isn’t over yet.
ngl,this year really woke me up. I see clearly now,who's for me and never was. I learned to set boundaries, stop overextending myself and stop pouring into cups that don't pour back. it's not easy,but it's necessary and peaceful
Somewhere in your 20s or 30s you’ll get the opportunity to rebuild your life after a negative loop, heal from what broke you, live in your own space, reconnect with your discipline, and learn to love yourself again. It’s very important that you see that journey through.
I'm grown enough to admit that due to the things I was put through in life, I'm a hard person to deal with sometimes. I overthink, worry, and can be hard to understand. I'm beyond territorial, and require a lot of patience. But I also know that I can love like no other. I can give you the world as mine is falling apart. I'm loyal and my heart is pure. I don't give up on people until I have no choice but to.