"stop being sensitive" no‚ you stop being insensitive. respect how people respond to things and situations what’s little for you might big to others. if you can’t empathize with other people’s emotions‚ at least learn to respect different levels of sensitivity
everybody is shocked when you start being real serious about your bounderies, like yeah surprise, i'm not a people pleaser anymore so let's see how cool we really are
i think the ppl u surround urself with should make u want to be better. a better friend, a better person, a better partner. i think healthy challenge is good and even necessary. accept ppl for who they are yes, but i want to be around ppl who bring out the best in me