Dating is optional. My bill are paid. My house is calm. My bed is big. You’re not competing with another man, you’re competing with how comfortable I am alone.
NGL I JUST HEARD SOMEONE SAY, “MAYBE YOU DON’T NEED MORE TIME TO HEAL, MAYBE YOU NEED MORE EXPERIENCES THAT SHOW YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM A DIFFERENT REALITY,” AND YEAH… IT ECHOED IN ME
Marry the man who calls back after the argument, no matter how bad it got. the one who swallows his pride just to remind you that he's not going anywhere. That's not weakness, that's a man promising you to give his whole life to commiting to YOU...
normalize giving up on people. no more seeing the best in them, no more excusing their behavior. accept them as they are and reject them. If they wanted to appreciate you, they would’ve already.
just saw a TikTok where the lady was saying that, "sometimes the most thoughtful thing a man will ever do for you is make sure you don't spend the rest of your life with him" felt that to the core.