there is a difference between private and secret. i’m open but like, my life is still private. unobserved. it’s not secretly concealed either. not secretive. i am communicative about my lessons and always open to sharing, but the details of my life remain for me.
Don’t waste your precious time lamenting endlessly about your past mistakes. Past is over. You wouldn’t want to watch the same movie 100 times a day yet that’s exactly what our mind is doing when we regret & lament again & again. Let it go. Focus on what you want.