her loss?
no, your loss.
you lost a woman who cared for you without being asked, remembered the little things, and always wanted to see you happy. someone who stayed through the hard days, gave you chances, and loved you even when you gave her reasons not to.
she didn’t need perfection, she only wanted effort, honesty, and to feel chosen. she gave you all of herself, and one day you’ll realize how rare that was.
so no, she didn’t lose you.
you lost someone who loved you genuinely.
Narcissist means:
🚩 N — Needs to control
🚩 A — Always plays the victim
🚩 R — Rewrites the story
🚩 C — Craves attention
🚩 I — Ignores your boundaries
🚩 S — Shifts the blame
🚩 S — Seeks power
🚩 I — Invalidates your feelings
🚩 S — Struggles with accountability
🚩 T — Twists the truth
You call her toxic now, but you met her when she was kind, open, and trusting. She became guarded because you kept hurting her, reactive because you kept crossing lines, and tired because she kept choosing you while you chose yourself. That wasn’t toxicity. That was damage.