hey girl: wait for friends that pray with you, who go down in the trenches with you. the “your mess is welcome here no matter how far you’ve run” and point you to Jesus friends. don’t look for the ones that know how to party, you need friends who can go to war with you and pray.
Maybe a lot of y’all have been feeling a little down like I have. These are hard days. My friend who is a therapist told me recently to practice savoring. To pause over anything lovely or fragrant or noteworthy or intriguing or mysterious -anything at all- & find some joy in it.