I’m not passive I don’t beat around bushes I’m aggressive & I don’t do the guessing game you’ll know exactly how I feel about everything every time cause I’m going to tell you !!!!
I’m to the point where you ain’t even gotta do nothing to me directly. If I see you doing some shit that’s outta pocket towards somebody else, especially intentionally I’m keeping my distance. Bitches be needing to get smashed. Yall playing it too crazy now.
People lack accountability, then say, 'You could've talked to me. No, I couldn't. You don't listen. You deflect. You twist everything into an attack and then play victim. Conversations with you aren't healing, they're exhausting. honestly, I don't owe my peace to someone who only shows up to argue not to understand.
I do not handle hurt well at all and I do not like who I become when I am hurting. That's why I really don't like being mistreated or played with. If you aren't genuine, don't even bother me, Just move around.
Just apologize when you know that you fucked up... All of that manipulative behavior and being mad at a person for being mad at you when they have a legit reason to be is just weird shit... People love to say they grown until it's time to hold themselves accountable!
I cannot stress enough how important it is to speak up for yourself when someone is crossing your boundaries or dismissing your feelings. You are your biggest advocate. No one else can read your mind or feel what you feel.
When I’m going through things. I do not like talking to people on a daily basics. That's how I've always been because i easily become overwhelmed and overstimulated. 9/10 I'm the only person that can save me, so i like to isolate myself until I'm back to me. Y'all be expecting everybody to handle life circumstances the way y’all do and that's not right, my misery doesn't love company. I'll rather isolate myself until I get it together.
If you offer me a sincere apology and change your behavior, I'll never bring up our past issues again. But if no apology was given and you’re still repeating mistakes, you can't ask me to stop mentioning the past. The "past" is actually the present if u haven't changed.
i've sat with myself for years. i analyzed everything i have done wrong, could have done better. and even still, i couldn't find a point in time where i deserved to be treated the way a lot of people treated me. but i still hold my head up.