I take EVERYTHING as a sign frm God in life. An small inconvenience. Like maybe I didn't need to go to this place, maybe I don't need this person in my life, that job may not be for me, maybe this is saving me from something only GOD can see. No loses forever lessons.
No contact is saying “I will no longer abandon my reality for the sake of an imagined version of you.” Bc to keep the door open, energetically or literally is to keep your soul hostage to a future that doesn’t exist.
Being the friend who always going through something is so wild because I was crying over this like two weeks ago to my best friend like “I’m sorry it’s hard being my friend” and they were like ???? No you just have a hard life and I love you it’s not hard loving you