the amount of women in the collective who’ve opted out of casual dating and opted into abstinence, celibacy, or simply just dating themselves really says a lot.
I don’t play the victim. I will just tell you straight up why I became the villain & why somebody got the reaction they got. I believe in taking accountability for my actions & my reactions. I don't mind showing someone real quick that they need to find somebody else to play with. I don't start problems, but I will finish them.
Liars & narcissists love acting like everyone else is the problem while they swear they did nothing wrong. Not me. I'll tell you exactly what I did, why I did it, & how it happened.!! 🫠🫠🤥
Decentering men is the best thing you can do, ladies.
Remember, “Barbie has a great day every day, but Ken only has a great day if Barbie looks at him."
girl to girl: it's okay to be alone. it's okay to have a dry phone. it's okay to be celibate. it's okay to be selfish. it's okay to have high standards. your peace, your pace, your rules
Girl to girl: be that girl again.
Get disciplined again. Take care of yourself again. Eat better & move your body again. Oil your edges & drink your water again. Start praying & reading your Bible again. Get your money up and sleep 8 hours again. Find your spark and put yourself first.
i've been single for years and i've become obsessed with my own freedom, a man would have to be extraordinarily entertaining to get involved. he better be a whimsical little freak or i'm staying exactly where i am.
Unfortunately, i don't like nonchalant men. Be dominant. Check on me. Be affectionate. Tell me im gorgeous. Plan dates. Buy me flowers. Be absolutely obsessed with me
As you get older.. you should wanna carry yourself differently. Your mindset should be different. Your morals should be different. Your choices should be different. It's certain things you can entertain & certain things you have no business entertaining anymore.