USA. A Mexican restaurant. We had not yet ordered anything, and the food was already arriving.
Chips. Salsa. Unrequested. Free.
I stopped the waiter. "We have not earned these."
"They just come with the table, man."
They come with the TABLE. In my land, hospitality is a debt. Every gift creates an obligation, weighed carefully, returned in the proper season with interest of feeling. Here, the gift arrives before you have even proven you can pay for dinner.
This is not an appetizer. This is a declaration: we trust you. Eat.
I ate with the gravity the moment deserved. And then — I must report this calmly — the basket emptied, and a new one appeared.
"Did we…?"
"Refill," the waiter said. "It's bottomless."
Bottomless. They have wells of salsa. The supply lines of this nation are beyond anything my ancestors imagined.
My friend warned me. "Don't fill up on chips, dude."
Too late. I had accepted three baskets. Honor demanded each one be finished — an unfinished gift is an insult. By the time my actual food arrived, I was a ruined man.
I was not hungry. I was not comfortable. I had been defeated by a courtesy.
Generosity that arrives before the request cannot be repaid. It can only be survived.
I know the rule now. I have made my peace with the basket. One basket. Two at the most.
Who am I deceiving. There is no number of baskets I would refuse. The trust of a nation is in that salsa, and I intend to honor all of it.
@robbystarbuck@freddieoconnell This dude was crying from the cumberland when Covid hit, suing insurance companies and screaming for a bailout. Total joke of a business owner.
My favorite thing is when I drift over the line and as I gently correct, my car decides to aggressively pull the wheel and for a second I think this could be it.
@DisrespectedThe Releasing it all unredacted causes those in power to lose their power. Redacted, slow release causes controlled chaos below the powerful until they find a solution to the problem while maintaining power. The latter is better to those in power.
@GPrime85 The more I think about this, the more it jives with the overall strategy Epstein used with his victims. "Yes, I abused you but look at all this money and access you've been given."