@johnnywave_ I don't understand why it's hard to breakup with people who you really don't want to be with.
Like at 3 months and neither of you are having sex with ANY ONE else?
I just can't imagine staying somewhere I don't want to be.
@johnnywave_ This. Like it's hard for people without kids who have all the time to invest in a person they are interested in versus someone who has to also consider their kid(s).
@ParadoxicalMike I still don't understand why it's free to get kids on the bus to school but they have to pay to eat when I they get there AND we put the ones who can't pay in DEBT. YET we all pay taxes for school if we have kids or not.
One of my exes stopped returning my calls and text messages. They were going through a bad time with grad school.
We had been together for just over a year at that point.
Didn't hear a peep from him for over a month then one evening he was blowing my phone up non stop. I ignored his calls and texts (when you had to pay for them) for a week.
I finally answered and said that I was sorry he was going through whatever he was but cutting me off with no explanation....I thought we were broken up and I was not going to continue to engage if that's what I can expect in the future. "But but please please let me explain "
Nope. Could have sent a carrier pigeon, telegram, smoke signal...something. Most check in. By the time he bothered to reach out I didn't care.
Needing space is fine but the world does not stop for every one else. Actions have consequences.
if your partner tells you they need space but cannot explain what that means, how much distance are you expected to tolerate before it starts to feel like you're no longer in a relationship?
can someone ask for space without making their partner feel abandoned?
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