one thing... I CAN NOT STAND.... is being ignored. if you're busy, say so. if you are not in the mood to talk, say so. if you are done with me, SAY SO. COMMUNICATE.
Unpopular fact:
Telling your partner who you're with, where you are going, who flirts with you, what time you'll be home is not controlling, it's called
RESPECT.
if my partner is an overthinker, then i'll be an over explainer. i have no issue putting their mind at ease. the goal is too build trust..not destroy it