Iโve spent most of my life pretending I donโt care about my birthday, but the truth is itโs just been years of strategic disappointment managementโlowering my expectations so even a text feels like a parade.
Why is it that when people are praying, they are praying for me to get a husband and kids? When all I want are healthy relationships, a long and healthy life, a great body, success in everything I do, and a lot of money!
I have decided that in 2025, if someone makes negative, self-deprecating comments about themselves and fishes for compliments, I will either ignore them or agree with them.
I used to have FOMO when it came to December trips to the motherland, but now I am just excited to see all the places I can go to next time I am there. #dettydecember