Think about this: if you start your diet or plan to “be happier” but you are literally beyond stressed out doing anything other than your “routine” and not able to enjoy the life around you…
Is it really worth it? Is it really the right fit for you?
A simple reminder that not only can you not “undo” the food you consumed over the weekend. You do not have to.
Food has many purposes.
To fuel and nourish your body is just one of them. But often food is connected to memories and moments that only happen once. Don’t “undo” those
PSA: if your ‘what I eat in a day’ video starts out with a flex of your body, your intention is not to ‘inspire with your recipes’ it’s to say the reason I look like this is because of these foods.
YES, your food intake is important but it is not the only aspect of health. And a quick scan of the social determinants of health can help you understand more.
Before you can effectively and efficiently SELL your services to your ideal client, my best tip is to write out your clients journey. Start to finish. What will they learn, what will they feel, how will they experience this work? What will come up? What resources will they need?
And a reminder. Obsessive exercise may not be specifically classified alone in the DSM, but it is a compensatory behavior associated with eating disorders such as bulimia, and should be taken seriously.
If you’ve ever thought, “my eating disorder is not bad enough” here are a few things I want to remind you.
1. You deserve support.
2. This is your ED voice talking.
3. There is no such thing as bad enough.
Currently sick and having PTSD of the days I was entrenched in diet culture and thought being sick would help me ✨reach my goals✨ I wondered where I would have learned this and then remembered this…
And having that power is fucking amazing. So this year, own it. Turn inward. Try to feel before you fix. Listen to your body and work to make each eating experience a LEARNING experience. It’s so powerful.
I think one of the coolest things I can teach you as a registered dietitian with 15 years in the game is…I know I don’t have the answers for what’s best for YOU 🥲 let’s unpack this.
The truth is, YOU are the only one that knows what’s truly best for you. Best in a way that you can keep doing it and best in a way that it makes you truly feel good.
And a bonus. Understand that the hyperfixation on "health" this time of year especially is the opposite of health promoting. The agony over eating the cookies arguably causes more harm than any cookie ever could. Try allowing them, enjoying them + focus on how they make you feel.
5. SET BOUNDARIES. Protecting your mental health this holiday season is the best thing you can do for your health. Understand that a boundary feels hard because it is meant to protect you and that may offend others. But F that, your peace deserves protecting.